5 Tips for a happy babywearing experience

I’ve heard many a Mom say “my baby doesn’t like to be in the wrap so I just gave up, she just screams even more when she’s in there.” The thing about babywearing is that it’s a skill. It’s not like trying on a new pair of jeans, looking in the mirror and going “hmmm yes, these make my butt look good and feel comfy.” There’s a lot more at play.

Firstly, we have Mama who is usually sleep deprived by the time she tries babywearing for the first time. And then we have baby, who is usually around 4-8 weeks old and very temperamental, as babies are at that age. Throw in a long piece of fabric or a brand new baby carrier that you’ve never used before and BOOM – tears all round!

So today I’m going to give you 5 tips for a happy babywearing experience.

1. Don’t try to wear a hungry baby

Lesson number 1: Never try to put a hungry baby in a carrier unless you want your chest to bleed from their razor sharp finger nails. A hungry baby will never settle, and if you try to settle them while they’re even a little bit hungry, they’re going to let you know about it. Offer more milk even if you aren’t sure, just incase. That way you know baby will be ready for the long haul if he/she decides to fall asleep. My son would often sleep for 3 hours straight during his first few months. When he was small enough, I could even prop myself up with pillows on the couch and get some shut eye myself while he napped on my chest, the best!

2. Make sure baby isn’t overheating

This one is especially for those Mama’s who are using a stretchy wrap during the first few months – and even more especially during a South African summer. Small babies cannot regulate their own body temperature, so if they’re snuggled up against you, dressed in a baby grow and then wrapped in layers of fabric, chances are they’re going to get a little clastrophobic. Keep checking on baby to make sure they aren’t too sweaty and have enough room to move and breath.

3. Make sure they are wearing appropriate clothing

Those denim jeans are cute, I know. Especially the ones for newborns. But seriously, they are not comfy for your little baba, and even more so if you’re going to try and put them inside a carrier. They are going to bunch up and may even cause chafing on your babies soft skin. If you plan to wear your baby, try to dress them in a soft, breathable onesie, so that there isn’t room for a t-shirt to get bunched up behind their back or shorts to bunch up behind their knees.

4. Get moving and humming

As soon as you’ve got baby safely and comfortably in position in your carrier, get moving! The natural movement of just walking around your house will calm your baby – remember its the same movement that they’re used to when they were living inside you for all those months. You don’t need to do any crazy bouncing, just keep it calm and natural. If your baby is fussing you can also try humming. I had a very difficult little guy to start with and I found that if I hummed while walking around the house with him in the carrier, he would eventually start to concentrate on my voice and my breath and he would calm down and fall asleep (granted he wasn’t hungry again by that stage!)

5. Make sure Mama is comfy too

If you aren’t comfy, your baby can feel it. They are super intuitive to your emotions as well as your physical discomfort, so make sure you have a carrier that you are confident to use at home as well as when out and about.

And the unofficial number 6: practice makes perfect! Like I said in the beginning, babywearing really is a skill and when mastered, you’ll reap the benefits in so many ways. Do you have any babywearing tips of your own to share with our readers? If so, please leave them in the comments section below.

Shannon McLaughlin

Author Shannon McLaughlin

Designer and Founder of Ubuntu Baba carriers and Mom to her son Leo, who was the inspiration for starting her business. Shannon is passionate about helping new parents adjust to 'life with baby' through the art of babywearing and talking about the reality of motherhood in the 21st century.

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